Child Contact: What Happens If Parents Cannot Agree?

22/09/2026 admin

When parents separate, one of the biggest concerns is often what arrangements will be made for their children.

In many cases, parents are able to reach an agreement themselves. However, where communication has broken down or there are concerns about a child’s welfare, agreeing contact arrangements can become difficult and emotionally stressful.

The starting point is always the child’s welfare. The law encourages parents to work together wherever possible, but if agreement cannot be reached there are legal options available to help resolve the situation.

Many parents assume that going to court is the first step. In reality, it is usually the last. Wherever appropriate, discussions, negotiation or mediation may help parents reach an arrangement that is in the child’s best interests without the need for lengthy court proceedings.

If an agreement cannot be reached, an application can be made to the court for a Child Arrangements Order. The court will consider a range of factors, including the child’s welfare, their individual needs and, where appropriate, their own wishes and feelings. Every family is different, and every case is considered on its own facts.

For many parents, the legal process can feel uncertain. They may worry about what the court will decide or whether they will continue to have a meaningful relationship with their child. Obtaining legal advice at an early stage can help you understand your options, avoid unnecessary conflict and make informed decisions throughout the process.

Director Eoghan McKenna said: “Disagreements about child contact are often among the most difficult situations families face. Our role is to help clients understand their options, reduce uncertainty wherever possible and work towards arrangements that are in the best interests of the child. Clear advice at an early stage can often make a significant difference.”

At MSM Law, we understand that child contact disputes are about much more than legal procedures. They are about children, families and finding practical solutions that allow everyone to move forward.

If you’re experiencing difficulties agreeing arrangements for your child, obtaining legal advice early can help you understand where you stand and what options are available.

We’re currently recruiting for a Head of Family Law and a Newly Qualified (NQ) Family Solicitor. See our Careers page for more details.

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